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Dating Tips For Men
Are You Making These 7 Deadly Mistakes With Women Without Even Knowing It?
Mistake # 1: Being Like Every Other Guy
Once upon a time, there was a man who saw a very attractive woman.
He was very nice and polite around her.
When he mustered up the courage to actually talk to her, he said one of the following lines:
“Hi, How was your day”
“Do you come here often?”
“You look familiar. Have we met before?
Then he immediately talked about the “Weather” and “Her Job”. When it was time to get her phone number, he said “Can, I take you out to dinner sometime?”
He waited 3 days before he called her up.
A week later, he brought her flowers, took her out to an expensive dinner, and attempted to kiss her while walking her to her door.
The End.
Okay, I’ve got some good news and some bad news.
BAD NEWS: If you can identify with the man in the story or if you think it’s the right thing to do, then you’re making a very DEADLY MISTAKE with women and you don’t even know it.
GOOD NEWS: Now you know about it.
If you see an attractive woman you’d like to meet, then chances are she’s been out on dates before.
There’s also a big chance that EVERY OTHER GUY fits the description above. As a matter of fact, it happens so often that women get tired of the same routine over and over again.
Why would you want to be like every other guy?
In this time and age, women dream of a man that is UNIQUE and ORIGINAL.
Mistake #2: Following The "Friend's First" Method
Have you ever tried to be “Friends” with a woman hoping that one day she’ll fall for you?
Maybe you were always there to TALK with her when she had problems. Maybe you did really nice things for her. Maybe you even tried to tell her that “You Liked Her”… Then she ends up telling you “Let’s be friends”.
She had a pretty good reason too. She said “I don’t want to ruin our friendship; you mean so much to me”. Next thing you know, she’s dating a guy that treats her like shit.
So why does she fall for him instead of you?
He’s doing something that you’re not doing.
He’s making her feel a powerful SEXUAL ATTRACTION towards him…
It’s the same SEXUAL ATTRACTION that you automatically feel whenever you see an attractive woman. You don't think about it. You don't control it, and you don't plan it.
It just happens.
Here's a secret. You can trigger that same SEXUAL ATTRACTION within a woman. In fact, you have to learn how to trigger this kind of a attraction within women or you'll never date the kind of women you've always wanted.
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to be rich or handsome at all to do it.
It’s much simpler than that. You just need specific techniques that compel women to feel a strong sexual attraction in your presence.
Mistake #3: Asking For “Permission” Before Doing Anything
Most men feel the need to ask a woman’s permission before they do anything.
They ask her if it’s ok to “Kiss Her”, “Take Her Out”, and sometimes even “Pick A Movie”.
This slowly kills any attraction that a woman might have for you. Women are attracted to men that know how to LEAD the interaction.
Instead of asking her permission all the time and starting your sentences with “Can we go to” or “Would you like some?” try being more assertive.
Instead of saying: “Do you want to watch a movie?”
say “Let’s go watch a movie”.
This subtle change of words makes a big difference in the way you come across to women. They will view you as more confident.
Mistake #4: Only Going To Bars And Clubs To Meet Women
Do you think you'll find love while perched on a barstool? Think again.
According to the Encyclopedia of Exes:
"Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men say they've found a relationship at a bar or club—blame it on the beer goggles. So if you're lonely and looking, you're better off hitting on cuties at Starbucks."
This means that...
91% of women prefer to meet men outside of bars and clubs.
That’s majority of the female population! Most of the guys out there are looking for women at the wrong places!
What shocked me the most was that nobody was aware of it.
Nobody was taking advantage of it.
Nobody knew how to do it.
They didn’t know how to meet women in normal everyday locations like coffee shops, bookstores, malls, college campuses, parks, beaches, and anywhere under the sun!
Mistake #5: Creeping Women Out Instantly
The sad truth is that most men that try to attract women end up creeping them out beyond belief… and the worst part is that they’re probably not even aware of it!
Here are the things they do:
- Smiling to much at a woman they want combined with staring at them for long periods of time in hopes that it will result to something. They do it over and over again until women get really uncomfortable and “creeped” out.
- Trying to get as close to her as you possibly can and following her around, crossing your fingers, and hoping that you just naturally “hit it off” with her.
- Trying to find out everything about her right away and asking her all sorts of “boring” questions one after the other. This is what every other guy tries to do and trust me, that’s the last thing you want to do.
Have YOU ever been guilty of one of these things?
If you have then… STOP right now.
These are the three most common complaints women have about men they classify as CREEPY.
Mistake # 6: Setting Yourself Up For Failure Right From The Start
Did you know that there are things that most men do all the time to guarantee that they fail even before they begin?
When most men see a woman they want, they start thinking of the worst possible scenario right away. For some reason this is the first thing that comes up in our minds before we approach women.
In the past, I remember having these crazy thoughts going in my mind:
“What if she rejects me and everybody around her hears it? What will they think of me? What if they laugh at me?”
“What if she has a boyfriend and she tells me to f*** off?”
Looking back, these thoughts have deliberately destroyed my chances with getting dates with beautiful women. They absolutely did.
Another “Instant Failure” move that’s common is that most men tend to Wait too long before they approach women. Well here’s what I learned…
That big ball of anxiety you feel when you see a woman you want to approach gets magnified and intensified the longer you wait!
It comes to a point that it immobilizes you… You end up freezing up and not doing anything.
By the way, here’s simple ways you can IMMEDIATELY use to approach women without fear and anxiety:
Be Prepared- Most guys fail with women because they don’t know what to do, how to do it, and when to do it. So in order to be part of the top 1% of men that are successful with women, you must be prepared even before you approach women. Use a proven way of starting conversations with women. Know exactly what you will do when something unexpected comes up and throws you off. This advice alone will triple your dating results.
Mistake # 7: Following Dating Advice That Doesn't Work
I'm going to make a really bold statement here, and I'll back it up in a minute.
MOST DATING ADVICE OUT THERE JUST DON'T WORK...
Here's why: Because I've tried them and nothing seemed to be working no matter how hard I tried,
I followed all the basics. I learned from every dating program available to mankind. I learned how to be interesting to women, how to start conversations easily, where to take them on dates, and as ridiculous as it sounds, I even learned how to guess their zodiac signs.
Turns out that most of the promises were just pure hype, pure bull... Because most of the dating advice out there just didn't work in real world situations.
It sounded right and the theory made perfect sense... UNTIL I tried them out in the real world only to fall flat on my face.
After figuring this out, I knew I had to take matters into my own hands.
Since then I went on a mission. To find the truth, try everything out, and increase my chances with the women I desired.
I spent most of my time and money on getting this part of my life handled. I spent well over 3 years carefully documenting and writing about my experiences. Most of my time was spent researching, coming up with techniques, and putting those techniques to the test.
I've tried all types of approaches to meeting women enough to learn what works and what doesn't.
I Ended Up Interacting With Literally Thousands Of Women
Today, I can meet any woman I desire, get her attracted to me in less than 30 seconds flat, usually having her beg for my number, and all the good stuff that almost sounds too good to be true.
Then before I knew it, I came up with a comprehensive step by step system.
I'm about tell you about the secrets I discovered but first, let me ask you...
- Are you sick and tired of feeling nervous every time you're in the presence of an attractive woman?
- Are you pulling your hair out of frustration because you're just not satisfied with your current dating lifestyle?
- Do you feel less like a man knowing that there are guys out there, who get all the hot girls, while you just stand, watch, and wonder how they do it?
- Do you feel like there's something missing in your life? Like you've got everything handled (wealth, health, and other things in your life) except for meeting women?
- Do you feel like your incompetence with women isn't your fault because no one really taught you the A, B,C's of women and dating?
- Do you dream of being able to walk into a mall, bookstore, or café, point out the most attractive woman there, and get her number – and a date later that night, too?
What if I told you that I could show you how to...
Get a date in less than ten minutes...Have the ability to pick up any woman...Know all the right things to say... Have a woman begging for your number after only a few minutes...Get the trophy girlfriend that will have Your friends, neighbors, and co-workers completely jealous!
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Oliver Turner is the author of "Daytime Pick-Up Revealed"- Every Man's Guide To Meeting Women In Normal Places", and has helped thousands of men, from all walks of life, meet more women, get more dates, get girlfriends, basically giving them the ultimate power and choice with women and dating. He also publishes a free online Dating Tips newsletter, available at
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