How To Pick Up Women Tips:
A Simple "Routine" You Can Use To Take Women Home... Without Getting Rejected!
***Question From Reader on How To Pick Up Women***
Okay, so you get the girl talking to you. How do you get her to WANT to go home with you or take you to her place?
Or do you even attempt to?
Mark
<< My Response >>
It depends.
Before I answer that question, there's something I want you to think about...
As men, we are very goal oriented. We always start things with the end in mind.
We want to meet beautiful women, take them home and have our way with them. It's that simple for us.
For women, it's a little more complex than that. It's multi dimensional.
There are so many things that need to be addressed on various levels, before she even considers going home with you.
Here's what I discovered after years of trial and error learning how to pick up women.
If you want to be that guy who consistently picks up women and brings them back to his place after the first date...
If you want to be that guy who consistently picks up women and brings them back to his place within just a few minutes of meeting her...
If you want to be that guy who consistently picks up women and brings them back to his place whenever he chooses too...
Then you should focus on the 3 needs of a woman.
3 Tips On How To Pick Up Women
How To Pick Up Women Tip #1
She Needs To Like You First
Let's face it, a beautiful woman needs to like you first on some level before she even decides to spend some time with you.
That' why first impressions are very important. You need to learn how to use your body language, voice tone, and other communication to create MASSIVE attraction with women.
She has to feel drawn to you. She has to feel good around you. She has to enjoy the time she spends with you.
Pick Up Women Tip For Today: Flirt with her first and make her laugh.You'll never go wrong with providing positive emotions right off the bat. She'll remember you.
How To Pick Up Women Tip # 2
She Needs To Know You First
Attraction is never enough. She needs to know more about you as a person. She needs to know if you have things in common.
What are you passionate about?
Do you like to travel?
Are you an interesting and fun guy?
Do you make her feel understood?
Hint: Something magic happens when you make women feel understood.
Pick Up Women Tip For Today: Find out what she's passionate about and find a way to relate with her. If she likes dancing and you're a musician then you have a connection right there! You both have outlets for self expression. So you can riff on that subject for awhile.
How To Pick Up Women Tip # 3
She Needs To Trust You First
She can be super attracted to you and even feel like you guys were meant for each other but if she doesn't trust you.. then she won't go home with you.
No amount of begging, rationalizing, and persuading will make her comfortable with the idea of going home with you.
Trust is a very important factor.
Probably one of the most important factors there is when it comes to women and dating.
Women will always looks for signs and clues earlier on to see if you can be trusted.
She wants to be assured that you're not going to jump her bones the first chance you get... And that you'll actually respect her for whatever choice she makes.
As bizarre as it sounds, women screen for these things earlier on, especially really attractive ones.
How To Pick Up Women Tip For Today: Think of three different ways you can communicate that you are trustworthy.
Do you touch her inappropriately early on?
Do you invade her space too much?
Does she get the feeling that you're genuine and real?
When you have that handled, then you take her home...
Here's how I do it:
After approaching a beautiful woman, I make it a point to take her on a spontaneous date on the spot.
Sometimes I get a date within 30 seconds of meeting women, but on average it takes me somewhere around the neighborhood of 10 to 15 minutes.
Going on an instant date creates an insane amount of comfort and trust which is exactly what you need if you want to take her home.
Anyways, I try to get as much instant dates as possible.
So I can take her for coffee, go for a walk, go inside a store and look at clothes.
The more time I spend with her, the better.
Then I do one of three things.
I either try to take her home, set up a date for the same night, or just get her number.
If I want to get her back to my place, I just take her to the supermarket. Then I tell her to help me pick out something to eat for dinner, ice cream, and some movies.
I try to get her involved as much as possible. In that way, It becomes OUR idea, not just my idea. She sort of becomes my accomplice, if you know what I mean.
...And since the ice cream is going to melt soon, I need to take it back to my place right away.
And at this point, we head back to my place and she teaches me how to cook... and other fun stuff as well!
Now that's the short version of how I do it.
You know, I personally used to be so SCARED of picking up women and trying to take her back to my place. That's because I didn't know how she would react and I didn't want to get rejected.
Now that I understand this particular "moment in time" better, and now that I understand more of the "dynamics" of what's going on, I get MUCH better results personally...
In fact, I never get "nervous" anymore when it's time to pick up women and take a them back home, and I rarely if EVER have a woman say "no" to me.
Now, in this newsletter I've shared a few points to help you get better results in this particular area. Use them. They'll definitely help you.
You should read this newsletter right before you go out to pick up women or before your next date.
But as you can probably tell, this is just one of MANY important facets of success with women. In fact, this is just scratching the surface of the skills you'll need if you want to have CONSISTENT success with the most DESIRABLE women.
The reality of this situation is that if you want to take control of this area of your life and not walk helpless with women anymore, you're going to need to take more steps to get yourself educated on this topic.
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Oliver Turner is the author of "Daytime Pick-Up Revealed"- Every Man's Guide To Meeting Women In Normal Places", and has helped thousands of men, from all walks of life, meet more women, get more dates, get girlfriends, basically giving them the ultimate power and choice with women and dating. He also publishes a free online Dating Tips newsletter, available at
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